Chatline Dating Safety Tips
"You will find our chatline dating tips apply to any kind of dating service or situation. Girls Flirt Free Chatline is a fun and exciting opportunity to chat, flirt and find dating partners. It's a great place to express your desires, interests and personality ... and connect with those who share those interests. However, remember that common sense will make our chatline, or any dating service, a safer and more pleasurable experience."
Protect your privacy. The whole idea of our flirt and dating chatline is you can be anonymous UNTIL you are completely ready to meet someone. In fact, you are under no obligation to meet anyone in person. With our chat technology, NONE of you personal or private information is ever revealed to other callers. Your identity is protected until if or when you decide to share it. Never include your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your personal greetings or messages. It is an excellent idea to stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information (or attempts in any way to trick you into giving it).
Take your time getting to know people Talk, chat, flirt make new friends. Although our chatline is structured for phone chat and dating, you never have to meet anyone for a date. Many of our members prefer just to chat. If you are interested in dating (as most of our members are) there is no reason to rush into dating someone. There are thousands of guys and girls to meet. If by chance someone behaves oddly or inconsistently, just stop talking with them. Move on. Keep in mind that everyone likes to portray themselves in the best way ... and a few people go to far with this and just out right lie. If someone just seems 'wrong', trust your instincts, go chat with someone else. You are very likely to make a great connection with many other people at Girls Chat Free Chatline. Do not waste time with men or women you just don't like.
Only agree to a date when YOU are ready. Even if you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. You have every right to remain anonymous if you decide that is best for you. Trust yourself. Go with your instincts. As with any dating service, Girls Flirt Free Chatline cannot decide for you when or if to meet someone. That is totally your responsibility. As such, you have every right to decide when, or if, you should meet anyone.
Doing some background checking is a good idea. Because privacy and being anonymous is what Girls Flirt Free Chatline is founded upon, we do not invade anyone's privacy by doing background checks. However, there is no rule that YOU cannot check someone's background. Especially if you decide to meet then. If fact, we would encourage members to do their own research prior to dating. And, that should apply to any dating service. If you mutually agree to meet, you should begin by exchanging some personal information. Then, utilizing Internet search engines, do some background checking. Use your head as well as your heart. If you want to get real serious about doing a background check, try Dating Safety Check or Instant Background Checks. For a little bit of money, you can get a lot of information on as many dating partners as you want. NOTE: If you encounter someone underage using our services, be responsible and alert our customer service team.
Make people earn your trust. In a perfect world, everyone would tell the truth. However, in this world, some people do not. Take all the time you need to test someone's trustworthiness. If you suspect someone is lying, they likely are. If you mutually decide to take your relationship to the next level, be smart and take the time to be sure this person is worth spending intimate time with.
If you see any warning signs, slow down or stop. Pay attention to displays of unnecessary anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments or any kind of inappropriate, aggressive behavior are all warning signs. You should be concerned if your date ever behaves in an unacceptable manner, especially without providing an acceptable explanation. This includes lying about age, marital status, profession or employment, family background. If someone wants to keep some things private, fine. If someone constantly fails to provide honest answers to direct questions (or becomes overly deceptive), that is a big warning sign. Do not ignore it.
Always meet in a safe place. If you decide to meet someone, always tell a friend where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date's name and telephone number with your friend. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation. Busy, public place make excellent meeting locations such as a coffee houses, restaurants, art galleries, public parks or large gatherings such as a concert. Refrain from drinking excessively. This will impair your ability to make good choices. If at some point you and your date decide to move to another location, take your own car. Consider making a phone call to inform someone (or leave a message on your own phone) that you are going with your date to a new location. It is not rude to allow your date to see you make that call.
When traveling to another city or town to meet someone make sure you have your own car and/or hotel room. DO NOT disclose the name of your hotel and never allow your date to make the arrangements for you. Call your date from the hotel or meet at a public location you agree upon. If the location seems inappropriate or unsafe, trust your instincts and change the location. Always make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And if possible, carry a mobile phone at all times. Traveling to meet someone in another city is an exciting adventure. Keep it a fun, memorable adventure by being smart about safety.
If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe at any time, leave. Dating and meeting new people is all about having fun. If a situation, place or person makes you uncomfortable or unsure, that is not fun. Never do anything that makes you feel unsure or unsafe. Use your best judgment to diffuse the situation and get out of there. Excuse yourself to call a friend for advice; ask someone else for help; call a cab or just say you are done for the night and leave. Never worry or feel embarrassed about your choice to be safe. If it turns out you over reacted, so what? Apologize and move on. Your safety is always more important than anyone's opinion of you. Again, dating and meeting people is about adventure, romance and having a good time, if that changes, the date is over, go home.
Have as much fun and meet as many people as you want. Dating and flirting is all about connecting, having fun and enjoying yourself. We wish you a fun and safe dating and chatting experience.
Note: You MUST be +18 to participate. And, make sure your phone carrier is NOT charging you long distance fees when calling our free trial number. Most quality phone services do not. Some, sadly, do. We want this to be completely free for you to enjoy our sizzling chatline.